◄◄◄- Does your relationship feel tense, like an elastic band stretched to its breaking point?
If you’re nodding then I’ll bet you’ve both stopped communicating like you did when you first fell in love.
Whether you’re married or in a relationship, this video will teach you a simple communication skill to connect with your lover and melt their heart in 10 seconds or less.
Appreciation is like the oil that lubricates our relationship. When we don’t get it from our partner, the cogs that keep our relationship healthy stop turning.
So, in the next few minutes, I’m going to show you an easy way to make your partner feel deeply appreciated and loved.
I’m going to teach you an advanced appreciation technique.
It’s called descriptive praise.
If you both use this technique often, your partner will soften, and feel more connected to you.
Here’s how it works:
Step 1: Think of something your partner did (or does) that you appreciate. E.g. Choosing thoughtful Birthday gifts
Step 2: Now, identify the trait that their action reveals about them. E.g. They are a caring person.
Step 3: Go to your partner and share with them the ACTION and the TRAIT that you appreciate.
So for example, instead of just saying “You’re amazing”, you might say, “I really love how thoughtful you are when me a birthday gift. You really think about what I would love and it shows me what a caring person you are and that makes me love you even more.”
See how much more meaningful the last appreciation was than just saying “You’re amazing”?
Use this technique with your partner whenever you want to appreciate, acknowledge or praise them. In fact, you can use it with your kids or anyone.
So try it with your lover and leave a comment below to let me know how it goes…
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